Preparing for the Unexpected

Preparing for the Unexpected

A family is a beautiful thing. People coming together out of love and creating a family based on that is one of the best things in the world. Sometimes having children is unplanned. Sometimes you fall in love with someone who already has children. Maybe you both already have children and now you’re blending your families. Sometimes having children on your own is difficult and you give a loving home to a child who would otherwise not have one. However the case, having a family is the goal for a lot of people in the world.

There are many unexpected things that come with families. There are personalities that can potentially clash, there are disagreements over raising children, and there are times when the children themselves are quite unexpected. As much as we try, it is impossible to plan for every single possibility. There are things you can do, of course. Insurance can help you protect yourself from many unexpected things but not every family can afford all-inclusive insurance. Some employers will offer medical insurance and there are times when employers can only offer the bare basics. For those who are unemployed, medical costs can be quite difficult to deal with.


People don’t wish to have a medical issue. Unfortunately, life just doesn’t seem to care about that. Things happen that we have no control over and it’s important to be able to be okay with that. We all know that devastating medical conditions can strike at any time. Cancer, broken bones, birth defects, and diabetes are just a few examples of life-changers. What’s a family to do when a costly medical issue affects them?

With the internet it is much easier to be connected to people all across the world. Not all families remain in the same location, after all. Not only can we share information about our lives but we can also ask for help on a much larger scale than before. Crowdfunding has become a very popular method of fund-raising when unexpected situations happen. This is when people advertise online that they are accepting donations towards a specific need. People write a little bit about their story and then set the amount they would like to receive. You don’t have to appeal to the kindness of strangers only. There are crowdfunding platforms, (or more acuratlycrowdgifting as its for hardship cases) like Plumfund, that market more towards friends and family being able to offer support. If you decide you want to share it with the rest of the world you are more than welcome to. This is a very accessible way for your friends and family who are perhaps too far away to contribute, if they can, to help ease the burden.

When faced with a seemingly insurmountable bill it can be daunting. It might be embarrassing to ask for help, but that is better than the alternative. People are more giving and helpful than you might imagine. If you have a family and you’ve got this sort of stress, don’t you deserve a little help?