Guys, we know you have usually had at least two sex bucket list items. One is being part of a threesome and two is filming your own little homemade porn staring your lovely lass and yourself. Before you throw that camera on a tripod and start filming, here are some words of wisdom in getting her in the right mood to make a hot home movie!
First and foremost, PERMISSION! Don’t be that horrible dude who films without permission because trust us, it will end badly when she finds out you filmed her without consent.
Once you have her permission, the fun can begin.
You can’t just set up the camera and start recording. Just like a model needs direction from the photographer, you both need to talk to each other. Don’t be shy or coy. Ask and talk about what you’ll be doing from start to finish. Plan it out like a staged play. Watch porn together to see what the other would like and what you’d like to try. We’d like to make a point here that this is when and where you also decide who has access to your soon to be made movie, where it’s kept, and so on. Don’t do this as an afterthought. Once you have your plan together, pick a place and time where you’re both free from all distractions that are outside of the play area.
Now that it’s the big day of the shoot, don’t just jump right in and think if you say action she’ll be ready. Get in the mood! Set the mood with lighting, music, whatever it is that you know will get her into the mood. Make her comfortable. As you should do anytime you have sex with your girl (or any girl). Girls are usually self conscious especially when they’re naked in front of someone, so be sure to make her feel special and confident, nurture her ego. Pay her endless compliments, compliment her breasts and her figure, her legs and her ass, the way she moves and all the tiny details only you would notice. The less obvious or generic the compliments, the better.
Women like to feel their absolute sexiest when in bed. Some women feel sexiest when they’re wearing some sexy lingerie that keeps your eyes glued on her or a something provocative that make them feel kinky. Treat your lady, buy her a costume or some new lingerie. Tell her to imagine it as role playing, “act” like you are porn stars filming on set.
You don’t really need all the professional equipment from an actual porn set. In-fact the more amateur, the better. Natural lighting is always the best way to go but if you’re movie has to take place at night, stick to just one source of light. Warm and yellowish or sexy reddish light will hide blemishes and cellulite that girls fuss and cringe over. As for cameras, there is no need to rush out and drop a wad of cash on an expensive camera either. A camera phone will work just fine or even the webcam on your laptop, and if your girl isn’t 100% about being filmed – let her film on her own devices, so that SHE has full control on the footage. The only thing you’ll need is a phone tripod and a good spot. Angles are easy. Surprisingly the best angle to shoot porn from is from below with your phone, looking up. It makes her tits and ass look bigger and rounder whilst making her stomach look flatter.
Just like a play has rehearsals, we suggest you rehearse your porn. After all practice does make perfect. Practice without the cameras on and when you’re ready, flip the switch and press record. Having sex on camera is a big step for anyone so you can’t just wing it when it comes to positions. Try out your positions before hitting record, remember that like most mainstream porn films, your home movie will be focused on HER. WOMEN are always the focus of these films. Try to choose flattering and easy positions for your home made movie.
Now that you’ve crossed the bucket list item off, don’t rush out to your bros and brag that you’ve made a movie with your lady. That’s a pretty jerky thing to do. What you shared with your girl was an intimate act of trust. Break that and well, you may never see her again. Keep this naughty bit of fun between the two of you! God forbid if you are ever second-guessing that maybe if you break up your partner may release this footage to the world…if this thought has crossed your mind for even a millisecond, we suggest letting this bucket list item fall to the wayside until you meet a partner you can trust one hundred percent. Remember, digital is forever – don’t do anything you’d regret.
