You might find it unbelievable that even in the age of high end and sophisticated online dating, sex and raunchy talks over the ‘outdated’ telephones continue to go and grow strong. Basically there are certain things that have a timeless appeal, this being just one of them. And making love over the phone is no mean task. You might be a killer on the bed, but are you equally competent to win over the lovelies with your words? What about testing your expertise with it? Here is lowdown on getting started with it.
How to Start Talking
Even the girls who are going to be paid to talk with you need some help to ‘perform’ better. It’s on you to make her feel that she is being wanted. So when it comes to phone Sex, it is never a bad idea to start your conversation with some expression. You can start by making some sighs, deep breaths and if possible, start talking as she has already turned you on. Infuse some soft, careless whispers and playful chuckles while talking with her. You cannot afford to be a simple drab and end up sounding as if you are talking with someone in a grocery store. Wondering what to talk about? Well the one on the other side of the phone would love to discuss a number of things. He or she would even drop a few hints here and there about what he/she would prefer to talk about. If you cannot work on the clue, or feel too shy to interact, then never mind. They know how to keep the ball rolling. Just make sure that your partner feels that he or she is catching your interest.
Being Honest and Upfront (Like Never Before)
Sex over phone calls are not meant for superficial love making. So it is not necessary to simply pick up the phone and rant about your problems, failures, what have you done before or anything similar. It is the place where you can let your imagination run wilder than ever before. You can take the opportunity to share about your wildest sex fantasies no matter how unrealistic or absurd you feel them to be. Talk about anything that confuse you while making love. Do you have any strange fetish that no one knows about, or nobody would even dare to do for you? At least, talking about it over the phone would rid you from some mental baggage. You can imagine any background, rangin from Paris, to a nude beach, or under the car, or an exquisite restaurant, or a rave party shack. Since the person talking to you does not know you personally, your privacy remains well protected.
Staying Safe
Safe and consensual are the two words that should define your telephone talks. Make sure that your partner of phone Sex would never weaponize your statements against you. The trick is to wait for some time and utilize both your intuition and intelligence to judge the reliability of the partner before completely giving in. And if anything does not seem right, then you know what to do.
